Saturday, June 9, 2007

like how rude....

Unbeliveably rude
A persons blog is like thier house well it IS thier house you don't go into someone elses house and start abusing one of thier guests do you?
Abuse the owner if you want damn you can abuse me but don't go off at someone else in the comment section it's so rude!
You want to go off at someone do it on your own page do it on thiers but on a third partys page?
It just makes you look 10x worse than you are



Blogging has unwritten rules and "comment crashing" is one of the things that you just do not do.
Yes carry on a civilized discussion, yes have a debate with someone but an all out fight when its not your page or the page of the person you are fighting with its just not done


Same goes for "cyber" keep that to yourselves no one else wants to see your personal conversations, don't need it re-posted from emails or IM's



Now I'm not saying that you can't fight or "love" just keep it on your own page in your own house

Every comment you make doesn't have to be gushy and full of praise for the blog author either most people like feedback good or bad but there is a huge difference between "My thoughts are ... " and "You are a moron %$#%" (to quote JC Pardon My French)

Don't go making yourself look like more of an idiot by abusing someone either on thier page or someone elses

Its just not done


Edit: whoops saved this as a draft and forgot to post it, was wondering why no one was noticing it

1 comment:

josie2shoes said...

I am so glad to see someone post about this Missy. I was just apalled when that happened on our friend's page. Like who does that person think they are popping in to make rude comments to another commenter. The fact that it was family made it even more shameful! Yes, by all means, air your dirty laundry in private. Just shows me how pathetic this person really is. Dana handled it well, I would have been a bit more pointed in my reply to the asshole! :-)

I agree too, that people want honest feedback to their posts, whether positive or not so much so. Sometimes we learn from other's insights. But there are ways to say things, and ways not, being just plain obnoxious is never acceptable. People with very tiny brains, and much smaller hearts act this way - thinks it makes them look bigger, but really makes them just look like asses.

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